Ah, the very emotional girl – the girl that cries at the drop of a hat. A sweet, sensitive soul that you just want to protect as a real man. All that weightlifting you’ve been doing is sure going to come in handy as you wrap your strong arms around her – but you’ve been doing the wrong kind of workout – the workout you really needed was a combination of sprint and long-distance race training because from the “crier” you must RUN. Who finds the world that distressing?

The crier has two things going on – and by the way – before we continue I don’t mean that it’s wrong for a woman to cry if she suffers a significant loss – I’m speaking of the woman that cries at almost EVERYTHING. Now that we have that clear, here are the two things she might have going on. ONE – she’s a manipulator/actress – she uses tears as a way of control – she knows that she can let the water works flow and cut off any meaningful conversation with you. It’s not normal and not natural.

In fact, on my “Dating Women Radio Show” we had a woman that cried because she got BUSTED for scheduling a run with a male “friend” behind her boyfriend’s back. What can I say, she deserved a gold statue for her performance! TWO – she’s got serious mental problems. Who cries at the drop of a hat for every little thing? It’s like the person that laughs at everything – it’s not normal and not natural. It’s all cute in the beginning but can you deal with her mood swings for a month?

The type of woman I tell guys to look for is a flexible giver with integrity. She’s not going to be the type of person that’s going to try to manipulate you nor will she be someone that you are afraid to leave alone because “today is one of her emotional days”. It’s all cute in the beginning but can you deal with her mood swings for a month? A year? 10 years? 40 years? I have a saying – BELIEVE IT NOW because it won’t get better – in fact the years will only make it worse.